A Question for Everyone

[puffy_pants]

Assume a process or product exists that an AB could use to change a person's mind into understanding and supporting an AB lifestyle. Do you use it? Is it right? Is it ethical?

[wannabe_baby]

I don't think I'd use it. It always kind of disturbed me whenever I passed by sites about hypnosis tapes and even brainwashing. These ranged from sissy tapes all the way to financial domination, forced bi and stuff. Even though I'm an AB, I've never found these to be ethical and essentially thought that there's something very odd about it. If it's something you can't or wouldn't do normally, I don't see it as ethical to use. Even as an adultbaby, I wouldn't listen to anything that promised incontinence, even if I'd like to try it myself; this would essentially be something that would alter the way I think. I can't see what good could come of doing that even if I couldn't manage it myself.

Put simply, making someone else accepting this side of me is even worse than me hypnotising or brainwashing myself. I know you didn't mention it as hypnosis or brainwashing but "product or process" is the same thing to me.

[Diapers4Ever]

The only two people I would ever consider using something like this on would be my two ex-friends. My best friend is an AB and my two-ex-friends are very unsupportive of his lifestyle and think he's "weird" and "a freak".

Even after my best friend had explained to one of them that he was forced to wear diapers due to an accident, he said he understood but after he left, he told me that he thought it was "strange" and "weird".

[kiram]

sort of agree with wannabee--for my own use, such a thing, or hypnosis to allow say wetting uncontrollably while in diapers or behaving like a baby etc is one thing, but to force it on others is beyond my comfort zone.

[BabyGirl_Jessica]

sort of agree with wannabee--for my own use, such a thing, or hypnosis to allow say wetting uncontrollably while in diapers or behaving like a baby etc is one thing, but to force it on others is beyond my comfort zone.

I think I agree with the way you look at this Kiram.

I personally have used hypnosis on myself. It was a series designed to assist me in my quest for uncontrolled urinary incontinence at night. It was something I wanted to achieve, but was having great trouble do so. So, I just look at it as a tool that helped me achieve my desires and improve my lifestyle.

But I would NEVER consider using it on another person. That would be the ultimate in unethical behavior I think.

If someone else want to use it for themselves, that is fine. But it is not my place to do it to them, whether they are aware of it or not.

[DommyMommyScarlet]

In roleplay and fantasies that sort of thing would be fun.In reality, no thank you.

[Nurse Betty]

I agree with DommyMommyScarlet. To be whimsical about controlling someone elses will is terribly fun but in real life, if they aren't accepting of me.. who needs em! I do realize that this poses pain for some people so I don't mean to be flippant about isolating yourself from people. I have the attitude that you don't have to do as I do but don't ostracize me for it! If anyone expects to have real friends in this day and age you have to be openminded.

Live and let live I say

[GreatSunShine]

i probably wouldnt be happy if i had to use that to change peoples minds...id rather have them change their minds on their own

[pinkluvs]

A product like that harkens back to the days when homosexuality was thought of as psychiatric disorder, and one could be "cured" of this.
That's just plain wrong and silly.
There is no way I would even consider such a product. To each their own as long as no one gets hurt.

[Candy]

I would never want to be with anyone who did not love me for me....If they love you they will have an open mind and listen to you about your desire to be an aby.

[TheSitterStacie]

I think it's would be a dangerous thing to have a product or process to change someone's mind. Who is to say it wouldn't be used for other purposes? It takes time to have someone accept you for who you are when you tell them a big secret about yourself, they either do not accept it, or they do, for those who don't, would you really want them in your life anyway? I wouldn't. You either like me for who I am, warts and all, or you don't, and I would someone would care enough about me to like me even if I shared a secret about myself with them, and if they can't then I'm better off without them.

[MommieSara]

Well stated Stacie. Its one thing to do hypnotic suggestions to a person who wants them. Like I listen to tapes at night that boost my energy, relax me and build my self-esteem. But I would never just use some type of technique to make some one think a way they did not choose for themselves. I like authentic people, spontaneity life without that is dull. And they would never really accept you it would be fake.

[StepSisterMandy]

I use blackmail, that always works for me! I generally always get my way *giggles*